I don’t understand why a school board would need to hear your entire sexual history to determine if a rumor is true or not. I’m sorry that this happened to you, I want you to know your trauma doesn’t have to define you. Like you said, you were only 16 then and had no idea what you were doing…well you’re only 18 now, and still learning. I think you need some resolution from your ex. Her coming clean to the “board” is not an apology, Womens My Mind Still Talks To You & My Heart Still Looks For You T-Shirt and it’s pretty clear you’re still reeling from the accusation and fallout. Good luck to you. University therapists, like all therapists, are supposed to tell you up front what is and is not confidential. There are things that aren’t (mostly related to intention to harm yourself or others). You don’t have to “test” them. You can just ask.
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It’s a horrible cultural thing NOW. Males are just presumed to be guilty of any sex crime they are accused of and must PROVE their innocence. Even when proven that the accuser is LYING, us males get stuck with label. Now, for OP. Talk to a counselor and LAWYER sue the shit out of the school board, school, and the bitch of an ex for emotional/psychological damages. They don’t. I tested it by telling my school therapist fake stuff to see if I could trust them. I explained that to my dad at one point in order to make it clear that my point about trusting nobody at the school was valid.Womens My Mind Still Talks To You & My Heart Still Looks For You T-Shirt Guess I‘m lucky that my Uni therapist abides by the universal law of therapists and doctors. Which means that she will only tell authorities when I have a clear intent of killings myself or others. Anything other (for example drugs etc) won‘t be at any authority
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I’d encourage you to find a therapist instead. Suing the board and going to court would be emotionally draining, especially since the burden of proof would fall on you, as the plaintiff (I’m not a lawyer so if any of you are, add to or correct my info). It might feel satisfying to “get revenge” on them, but it doesn’t solve your health issues. Talking to a therapist is Womens My Mind Still Talks To You & My Heart Still Looks For You T-Shirt idea since they’re paid to be an impartial listener. I’d honestly also just, move somewhere new where no one knows me. College is a great way to do that. I totally agree OP needs help getting through this and deserves a good shot at life. A lawyer won’t help with that. Some towns have free resources and that would be way more beneficial then a lawyer.