Mental illnesses have a strong genetic component. In the dynamic of your relationship you might not be the person to tell him to seek help. Are you both Christians? Can you ask someone from church to discuss things with him? Yes, both Christian, be we stopped attending church because he accused me of causing problems with another couple because I was “too friendly” Property Of XXl Lanita Athletic Dept Family Name School T-Shirt with the husband at a pot luck dinner. I talked to the wife, I just didn’t tell her hubs was the accuser but that “someone” said it was inappropriate & I wanted to apologize if I was. I recorded the conversation. She denied there was any problem at all, saying she had great respect for me &had no idea why anyone would say that.
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I played that recording for him. He stuck by his story and that she was just too embarrassed about it to confirm it. He also said I was trying to pretend we weren’t a together because I walked a few steps behind him instead of beside him at church on a very narrow sidewalk. I guess no one would notice us arriving and leaving and sitting together with 3 kids in tow. You should not have stopped attending church. Why not start attending church by yourself? You can really use the support. I know. It would not go well if I attended without him. Property Of XXl Lanita Athletic Dept Family Name School T-ShirtIt would only be a matter of time where I would be accused of going without him because I don’t want to be seen with him or to because I want to see someone else, etc.
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left an abusive marriage and you are in a VERY abusive marriage. I recommend you read the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft I know. But it is mentally taxing to try to cope with this kind of person. This book gave me a lot of emotional and mental freedom. Hang in there and message me anytime. Another very good one is Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away, by Gary Chapman. I’d read both if I were in your position (I have both as well).Property Of XXl Lanita Athletic Dept Family Name School T-Shirt Much love to you. Our church has a number of women in unequally yoked marriages and only one of them is “easy” (she’s married to very chill unbeliever) the rest are difficult, of course.