Grandparents had their days of seeing their own children’s joy on Christmas. They should allow their children to now experience that for themselves, as their own little family unit, and not EXPECT anything. Me and my partner were together for 5 years before we had our first child, and we spent every Christmas Make Thanksgiving Great Again – Trump Turkey with Mask T-Shirt going between parents. I decided that once we had our own children, that wouldn’t be happening. So far, we have had every Christmas (my eldest is 4), by ourselves. We have our own family traditions and order to the day. It’s been so lovely. And that’s coming from a really family orientated person!
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They are of course, always welcome around ours for Christmas, but it was always expected that we be the ones to travel. No, lol. You come here, or nothing. The only exception were my grandparents and auntie, who never pressured us in to anything and whom we would willingly travel to on the boxing day (they always had other family members who lived there, for the actual Xmas day, so were never on their own, and prefer it quiet). I’ll give you my recipe that I think you should try and share out;Make Thanksgiving Great Again – Trump Turkey with Mask T-Shirt One spoon of ‘no’ Two cups of ‘i don’t give a fuck’ A healthy dollop of ‘that doesn’t work for us’ And a sprinkling of ‘fuck off’
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I ran around to every house celebrating the first year I had my daughter. She was three months old at the time and we ended up on the road most of the day traveling to four different houses. Never. Again. After than Christmas day was family only and everything else needed planned out beforehand either before or after Christmas. If they couldn’t accommodate that was fine too, as I knew it was my rule and any other gatherings were first come first serve or wed alternate year to year. Make Thanksgiving Great Again – Trump Turkey with Mask T-Shirt Once I did that, shit got Soo much easier. I don’t feel like I’m trying to pack everything in and I actually get to enjoy time at each place instead of feeling like I have to rush off to the next location.